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A woman or sex of the six psychological factors
Posted on March 21st, 2010 No commentsAs a sexual dysfunction or disorder of one of frigidity, also known as sexy absence or cold, is a common female sexual dysfunction, men show little or sex. It is mainly the lack of female sexual desire, sexual life does not require, for sexual intercourse that indifference, dislike or disgust, anxiety during sexual intercourse, discomfort or pain.
Some people do not take the initiative to avoid sexual intercourse, but sexual intercourse can not make an appropriate response, lack of pleasure, or pleasure was not obvious, not satisfied. Some women do not even know what sexual pleasure, sexual pleasure has never experienced orgasm feelings.
In different countries and regions, has never experienced sexual pleasure and very little experience of the proportion of women orgasm vary widely, from 10% to 90%.
In most places, more than 25% of women have had or still have the phenomenon of frigidity. Only a few women to achieve orgasm almost every time sexual intercourse, about half of the women are more or less have had not reached orgasm experience. Some women at first marriage for life without adaptation and thus feel no pleasure, or not satisfied, it is not frigidity.
Because as time goes on, couples the gradual harmonious sexual life, experience the pleasure will be enhanced. Has not only sexual desire, or with a sexual desire, but long-term can not produce pleasure, or pleasure weak, and thus is not interested in sex or sex.
A woman or sex of the six psychological factors
First, since childhood education properly, by the psychological trauma caused by sexual harassment, religious edification or adult role models and other factors, the formation of the sexual life of prejudice, such as that sexual intercourse is a dirty dirty, dirty lewd behavior is a sin , is “a man happy, a woman will suffer”, and thus the lives of sexual aversion, disgust, fear of emotions.
Second, the lack of sexual knowledge, sexual intercourse feel fear, fear that intercourse will produce pain, or do not understand the psychological differences between men and women, the wedding night the man’s action rude impatience, and soon to reach orgasm and ejaculation, the woman failed to experience pleasure, On the contrary also feel discomfort or pain, or even give rise vaginismus. Over time, it will become increasingly indifferent to the sex life.
Third, pregnancy, worry, fear, nor a reliable contraceptive measures to suppress the normal sexual satisfaction and lead to frigidity.
Fourth, poor living conditions, interfere with sexual life, feeling unhappy, do not focus on difficult to arouse sexual excitement.
Fifth, the husband and wife are not the feelings of harmony, mutual mistrust, suspicion or disgust, unable to produce sexual excitement.
Sixth, the woman had a more severe habit of masturbation, sexual intercourse after marriage was not strong enough pleasure, or the man with impotence, premature ejaculation and other sexual dysfunction, the woman is not sexual gratification.
For the women, or sex, from the correction of many aspects. Both husband and wife have to understand the nature of physical and psychological knowledge, master male and female sexual desire and sexual excitement of the different characteristics of human cognitive life of a normal life and development of the significance of the sexual life to abandon prejudices and misunderstandings.
To actively improve marital relations, to eliminate the psychological barriers between husband and wife and all kinds of negative emotions, coordination, rhythm of life, co-ordination and mutual understanding. Impatient man should not rude, step by step to help the woman reach sexual climax.
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