Guard against six kinds of psychological effects Flirt

“Flirt” has been elevated to an unprecedented height. In our efforts toward a happy time, 10 million have to be careful following six emotions:
1. Depressed
A Kwan, and married Ms. B is only five years, but six months ago, B, Ms. no longer interested in sex, A-jun was rejected due to a good mood, they do often odds, look for Ms. B study mainly due to the frustration. Six months ago, B’s mother died, Ms., and she was very sad to emotional suppression. The A-jun did not understand his wife’s frustration will continue for six months, and lose interest in sex life.
In fact, each person experienced emotional injury, economic issues, work frustration, or at the very stress, depression occurs. In the help of a psychiatrist, A-Jun recognized to be more understanding of his wife, but Ms. B also think that treatment should be adopted to extricate from the depressed mood, and is committed to improving their relationship.

A Kwan and Ms. B through the efforts, their relationship is gradually returning to normal.
2. Selfish
C-jun, and Ms. D, after a decade of marriage to each other, have lost interest in sex. Through psychological counseling, found that the problem is the lack of mutual praise and support. Consultation, C Kwan, Ms. D complained that he did things for granted, D, Ms. admit it. But she said that he never praised her or pay attention.
Not praise a man and a woman is not equally horrific praise will make their emotional defects. Consultation, C and D, Ms. Kwan aware of the importance of mutual praise and enthusiasm.
3. Sexual taboos
E Kwan, F, Ms. married for four years, E-jun impotence situation is getting worse. E-jun is due to sexual taboos and mired in an agonizing situation. He felt that “good girls” should not be related and sexual relations, as that his wife is a “good girl”, so in love with his wife when the total nervous and self-blame, and eventually developed into unwilling to have sex with her.
Psychiatrist, told the E-jun, and try to adopt a more open sexual attitude, and Ms. E frank talk about this issue. And can not engage in sexual activity do not always think about this matter, learning relaxation training, in order to improve at this time of anxiety and tension. Finally, E-jun to overcome this problem, and his wife have a normal and happy sex life.
4. Sexual myths
Although sexual myths and sexual taboos are two extremes, but it also will damage a person’s sexual relations, G-jun and his wife is an example. G-jun have some bachelor’s friends, they often brag about their sexual adventures, G-chun, a video from some TV to see the introductory skills in performing, he gradually began to feel something missing, that the relationship between he and his wife, there are no other people do wonderful.
In fact, this is a violation of the natural competitive nature divorced from reality. G-jun and his wife discovered that they were exaggerating the sexual myths deceived.
5. The lack of adaptability
Marriage is year after year, a series of relationships: marriage, children, the children married, and then for their own retirement … … psychologists believe that a couple at a time from one stage to another stage of life, they must adjust their the marital relationship, while in the period of change, sex life may be resting for some time.
K and L, Ms. Kwan has been married a few years of which will be school children, she began to feel that they can not re-adapt to each other, sex life has thus stalled. Through psychological counseling, they recognize that the problem is that they can not adapt to this new relationship with the child. They are now not only a husband and wife, they are still their parents, which means that they played these two roles at the same time, they must adjust their mentality in order to get along harmoniously. In their adaptation, sexual relations are back to normal, and once again become a joy to do them.
6. Disharmony
M Kwan and Ms. P has a reading of junior high school daughter, the couple’s sex life is deteriorating, through psychological counseling, they found that there was disharmony between them there will always be. They teach children, a completely different point of view, M-jun is a free and tolerant of their children, while Mrs. P was very severe, as her daughter’s growth, this problem has become increasingly apparent. Ms. P even think that M-jun and forget her daughter too much attention to the presence of his wife. They often open their arguments, and make their sexual relations under pressure in a tight, almost into a resting state.
Psychologists believe that a good sexual relationship is based on shared views of life as a basis for a harmonious coexistence with the more pleasant.