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The six men in the world to see through the unspoken rules
Posted on September 17th, 2010 No commentsIt is said that a woman’s greatest misfortune is the misunderstanding of men, women suspected of men behind the total thing. In fact, men are easy to grasp, no matter how many false, as long as you love him, you may find the key to him. In fact, women love a man have a lot of fun, through to men’s love, but also found a man hidden behind that infinite world.
Man is indeed a very complex and changeable “animal”, his life fighting in rushing. Men in order to realize their own value, will keep in mind the idea of hidden and manufactured. Secret men growing nanny, but also nourish the soul of a man of nutrients. There are no secrets of men would feel very empty, there will be a sense of exhaustion. Man can not do without secret. These hidden help for men, it is the unspoken rules of men in the world.
Men attaches great importance to their hidden rules and always wanted to live in the fragments into the mysterious X-Files years, they made women want to know they can not see what all.
Thus, we have from those men out of the mouth of those who torture women the secret communication with each other behind the rules, and suggest that you read these men had the courage to self-righteous, self-assuredness proud of the strategy, understand these, and perhaps let your new love insight into the situation on the battlefield, something.
Rule 1
If they had not committed toScene: Enron and the old wheat in love for two years, thinking that Guashudiluo may be considered marital problems. But when Enron’s proposal to marry the old Jimmy would always say: “Now the day is not to be quite good.” So Enron was silent, and had to go on this way, she can be after a period of not satisfied.
Old wheat at a buddy’s gathering to say the truth: marriage, that was a matter of terror cases. After a thought to bear so much, they shudder. In fact, such as Enron, I really had since the days come, it may not be OK.
Old wheat hesitation, and he was afraid to pay for life’s attitude has led to Enron, and his love is always unstable. Finally one day old wheat gone to study in the UK went to the left Enron alone sad.
Analysis: for men is not responsible for, and often not easily committed. Men do not want too much trouble, he will rack their brains to please you win your favor, but he never Qingtu promise to always give back the body of his stay in the road.
Solution: see the other signs of an irresponsible, it is necessary immediately to stop their own romantic ideals. He can be friends, but never to his illusions.
And you really want a home who will take you to his home to see his parents, relatives and friends, and you have to explore your future dreams and roads, rather than being evasive, Xuyuweishe.
Rule 2
Often play the “evaporation”Scene: Zou Shi wheat that is very strange that he did not refuse her a good impression, when they meet to tell her good looks are also very close, but they are the opportunity to meet less and less time to meet less and less.
He will also disappear from time to time to time, do not answer the phone and not returning messages, and so she was anxious, and suddenly there grinning, and seem to have forgotten things that once disappeared.
Zou Shi said it this way: “Actually I have not as good for her, but she bought me a small gift, and always give me a call. I’m really bored, she was old by pressing her way of thinking love me, I would not let her sad, because I have become accustomed to the girl in front of the gentleman’s demeanor, chic wit a man not only against her. “
Analysis: Men and women are sometimes willing to do ambiguous on: his gracious, chic attitude of conquest of you so that you can not forget his energy and wit, you can not help but miss him, he evaporated the same time like a non-contact with you.
When he re-appeared, he was still, as always, funny, cute. Even if you have heard that he had a bad reputation, but you will not help but believe him.
What did you say that he can make you elated should have so that you feel with him is really nice, happy thing. Even he brazenly said, I just love a woman, you also think that this is unaffected flash personality.
He can always unique in your emotional world, full of marvelous. Although sometimes you have noticed that they are not his only, but he was hopeless infatuation.
Because of men, playing both sides and is very easy.
Responses: a man finally candidly reveal their true colors, they are sometimes just to play some of the feelings of the game. So you must not take it seriously, you have to learn to hide your desire and mood, to keep your sense of mystery, it makes you more attractive. Each other more urgent, the more you want to take it lightly. With their own strong sense of responsibility, let him worried.
Rule 3
The last one out the cardTsz Ho, George is an expert in love, for those eager to express his love to his girl, he soon lost interest, while another female artist Keiji, and she even knew love Tsz Ho, George, and never reveal the slightest their own emotions.
She was always with him to keep ambiguous on the attitude, not in front of him to express their feelings. Tsz Ho, George was very difficult to tell his buddies by the child, he might really fall in love with Keiji, and this girl so he dreamed, he did not know how the.
Analysis: Keep in mind, always in between the two of you the last one out of cards. Never worry first light cards, so you easily take the initiative, without being hurt. When a man does not know what you think in the end, he will become even more of your thoughts strong. You always gave him a look for your reasons.
As long as you leave the idea that he wants to see you, you always have the opportunity to win. If you are on a first date at the end in good faith to tell him: I am very much in love you, you begin to lose.
Even if he told you the same thing, as long as you gently smile, it had already won in the details.
In fact, he is not interested in your confession, he was interested in why you are always half a beat slower than him, why he always saw the face of a very good, but no on seemed to have forgotten him.
Solution: Do not be too concerned about him, and not to rush to confession. Lead their own lives, with their friends, their hobbies, he is only a small part of your life, not the most important, perhaps in such a game, you really win it.
Rule 4
Do not worry in the call backScenario: You met, his heart for you, you gave him a card, you can almost be certain that he will give your office tomorrow, sent a huge bouquet of roses.
But a week later, you do not receive a phone call. 28-year-old Jiaming said that, “the issue back to the phone, each man would take a certain rhythm, that made her so.”
He said, “Generally speaking, if I were a girl has an idea, I might want to call sooner, but when I realized that if I hurry to act, she might think I am rash, or that I am madly in love with her, so I was careful to say a few days.
Analysis: In the men respected by the film “Wan Ku children,” there are “three days and then call back” rule, but it is not written in stone – if so, then it is too easy.
According to our survey, there is no time limit of ten thousand souls, the rule core is: as long as Kang Dezhu on, then they do not call back.
Men sometimes just delayed due to lazy to call, they do not like a woman with a sense of urgency to prepare the plan, or did not get your phone number to see too important. A man asks you to contact, only that he could not definitely call you.
Countermeasures: or out of the house, or to call a friend, or rent a look at some of the film, in short, do something to enrich themselves, do not abandon the old one will never be loud phone. Remember, unless you are a masochist, or Do not take other call such a thing torture yourself.
Rule 5
Tenderness magic potionScene: “We all know women like compliments and romantic,” Mr. Zhao, who has studied women said, “Sometimes men do not want to show their tenderness, do not want to flatter a woman. But we know your tenderness will not be spilled in vain , the return is always huge. “
“I will in due course, talking pretty, let her feel satisfied and secure. These innocuous words of flattery or a few romantic gestures have the effect of incredible.”
Analysis: Women expect men sway their tenderness from time to time, this is not a secret. When a man told you your eyes like stars shine, teeth as white as pearls, you can not help being impressed?
Unfortunately, our survey shows that men are always in order to achieve their own purposes to meet the woman fabricated sweet.
Countermeasures: the efforts to distinguish the truth pretending to maintain a high degree of sober mind. If his praise is the general ones like “You’re beautiful”, he is likely to force yourself to leave your gentle; if his praise is specific, like “You laugh when the freckles on his brow in the jumps, beautiful”, then it is likely that is the natural expression of your love.
Rule 6
Cold treatment sub-operationsScene: Perhaps the beginning of your love one is not very perfect, but you think there are at least develop possible.
But he has not called, for a whole week, you finally understand: You left out the.
He uses a dishonorable, or even abandon some of the cowardly tactic: Liang Zhao each other, let her understand the situation.
Analysis: Why did you choose such a man breaking way? One is because it is an easy way to escape. Break up in person or by phone are no doubt a painful breakup.
Who wants to quarrel with it? Most men do not want confrontation with a woman in love.
For men, breaking up is a fundamental answer is that countless of “why” and tons of woman with tears. They were pinned down, so they think that to avoid a fight on both sides is preferable.
There are also practical reasons to make men and women say so reluctant to break up. They gave themselves leeway so that, when he was lonely and return to your life.
Men know that as long as not too long intervals, he did not have to do is to call to apologize for their recent whereabouts fool some of the beautiful Huang Yan-made, and then invited her to go out for entertainment, then an instant, she re – Back to his arms.
Solution: understand the split suggested that men, after self-esteem and such a man determined not to fall in love again. Constantly remind yourself that you need is a 100% true feelings of men, rather than the elusive love field veteran.
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