Maintenance of a harmonious sexual life husband and wife 18 strokes

Couples in couple, newlyweds can always come up with many ways to make the two sides of the sex life to be updated and development. However, as time goes by, over time, for various reasons, there may be disposed to efforts to promote sexual life is full of fresh vitality.

Result is of course a price to pay, the two sides led a monotonous life, and even quarreled frequently, resulting in breaking up trouble. As we all know, bought a new car after the need for frequent maintenance to maintain and extend their good performance. Why is sex life is no need to be maintained? Of course, require! Hugh Campel in 1994 presented a list of recommended daily, weekly, every few months or one year, do the appropriate things to keep sex life at its best. In the list are not necessarily all of the breakdown of the list must be done according to your own preferences, each of a selection of one or two, or simply by a number of ways to come up with your own.

A day to do: maintain a good sex life is based on caring and thoughtful, although some small chores they can make the other feel that you understand and care.

2, once again go to bed: If you always get up, keeping some things only get up after the other, you can get up in each other, before re-entering the blanket, and each other while chatting, hugging for a while.

3, to help each other to do an even very small things: for example, shave before her husband, the wife went to wipe the mirror of water vapor; in a wife or husband a few minutes before getting up, the other side first up coffee, hot milk or, to put a good vase of water.
4, shared something: for example, open a bottle of beer, the two shared, rather than the open bottle; to buy a newspaper, the two circulation, rather than each buying a.
5, embrace: no matter what circumstances, home door, hugged each other, so that the family atmosphere of love.
6, let the other side “right”: Do not blame each other everything, are the other not, and sometimes you let him (her) a horse, not to each other’s decisions are always the first product evaluation feet, this is not right, that’s not good .
7, once a week: Love takes time, at least once a week to arrange at least two hours of conversation in order to facilitate mutual communication. Go out to eat breakfast or dinner. Important thing is not eating and drinking, but have the opportunity to spend time together.
8, regular appointments: “Wednesday night is the joy of Zanliang time,” set in advance is good, not about other people, not do anything else, both go to the movies or watch a movie, or go to restaurants together delicious food, or to do both like to do other things.
9, along with somewhere to walk to: bus, taxi ride might have enough “privacy”, while he drove, to the too, too fast, it may wish to target, within walking distance of two to walk, talk while walking .
10, once a month: once a month to do things that are not within the normal range. U.S. psychology professor at Texas Tech University, Dr. Susan Hendrick, said: “to do some different things with the past or the past in different ways to do something, you can convince the other of the emergence of new feelings, so that already exists in the love intended to re-embarked. “
11, changing sex sites: If you normally talk in the kitchen, in bed making love, then what may come and go, reversed, try having sex in the kitchen, in bed chat.
12, changing roles: if always he (she) washing dishes, a Sunday you can fighting over who gets to wash; if always she (her) to do dinner, one day you can show their skills, to cook a dinner.
13 per month to once every 3 months: any human relations, there may be friction there. You are not careful, it is inevitable discontent will vent into the body of your partner. Afterwards you need to take some measures to make up, so that improved relations between the two sides reconciled.
14, temporarily parting: the weekend and your friends together and let your partner see brother. Temporarily together, the two sides will be more missed.
15, do a deal: the whole Sunday afternoon, the husband is always watching football, his wife is very annoying, television has also been taken up. A Sunday with his wife and her husband can agree to watching football on television, provided that he gave her beauty massage.
16, the planning for each Day: Let each birthday congratulations, anniversaries and holidays have become your partnering celebration, so that love is more deep, become more enthusiastic.
17, in-depth discussions time, to promote a more intimate relationship: If the two sides argue over something more than a month failed to resolve, may wish to sit down and talk to thin. What is the reason in the end the two sides to reach a compromise in order to find a solution. A number of important matters, such as money, sex life, the responsibility of one party against another and so on, to discuss, compare the views of both sides on these matters and attitudes, the differences in how the uniform. The two together make a piece of strange things: for example, along with tourism, to listen to symphony performances. In short, we must together find something of interest to both the novel.
18, the annual: You can summarize the past and plan for the future. Do a practical examination and evaluation, to the idea of the past year, practices, plans, results of a good to think about it, in order to improve in the coming year. The good old love letters read again, so that love of the fire re-ignition, a deeper love Benedict. Write a new love letters, frankly and boldly reveal your love and make an assessment of each other and make the future moving plans. Written later, send to – even if you live together.